8 months ago i wrote this post entitled "the man i want to marry" which included this disclaimer, "well i have begun to realize, from people in my life, from people NOT in my life, and from general thinking, that i now have a fairly good idea of who i want to marry. that's what i think today, i'll be rewriting this post in less than a year i'm sure...lol"

i'm definately NOT planning to rewrite the post! i find it ironic how my "non-negotiables" have shifted or altered, but the things i just "want", are very much the same.

i am certainly not in the position to rewrite...i have no idea who i want to marry, and i have no idea what he will be like. and i certainly do not have a list. i have heard from several very different people why they are glad or not that they made a list or not, and i have decided that for now i want no list. he is who he is, and i just want to know him for who he is, not for how he measures up to a standard i once thought was appropriate...

will i be rewriting this post in less than a year?